“What Has Been The Most Helpful Advice You Were Given When You Started In Ministry?” That’s an important question because such advice can mean the difference between washing out or enjoying a lifelong ministry. With that in mind, let me share three words of advice that have positively impacted my ministry throughout the years.

Helpful Advice for Young Pastors and Church Leaders

Studies show that ministers are leaving the vocational ministry in great numbers. In a recent year, 1,500 pastors left the ministry each month! Without question, Christian ministry is demanding. Yes, the sacred call is rewarding. But, it is also challenging. That’s why it’s important for young ministers to be guided by sage and biblical advice. 

In this BLOG I want to address the question “What Has Been The Most Helpful Advice You Were Given When You Started In Ministry?” That’s an important question because such advice can mean the difference between washing out or enjoying a lifelong ministry. With that in mind, let me share three words of advice that have positively impacted my ministry throughout the years.

1. Embrace Continuous Learning

Life is filled with circumstances that demand change. But, for most people, change is difficult. Mark Twain said the only person who likes change is a wet baby! True perhaps. But, change is necessary nonetheless.

Adapting to change is made easier when we commit ourselves to continuous learning. Because life is ever-changing, effective ministers must be dynamic. They must be able to read different situations and make necessary adjustments. However, the trick is to do so without compromising the gospel. They must change without compromise. To do that, they learn to distinguish between the sacred and the stylistic. They remember that it is their message that is sacred, not their methods. 

2. Prioritize Self-Care and Balance

Effective ministers provide spiritual care out of an overflow of their lives. Of course, such overflow only happens when they attend to their own self-care. When flying, passengers are told to put on their own oxygen masks before helping someone else with theirs. That’s because, if we don’t take care of ourselves, we won’t be able to care for others. The same is true of ministry.

By its very nature, ministry can exact a significant drain on one's mental and emotional well-being. So, it’s necessary to set boundaries and take intentional breaks for refreshment. Prioritizing self-care has not only enhanced my well-being but has also improved the quality of my pastoral work. Always remember, that a healthy and balanced minister is better equipped to provide effective congregational care.

3. Cultivate Genuine Relationships

Ministries that are the most effective are built on relationships. It’s like John Maxwell has said, “People don’t care how much you know, until they know how much you care.” While Christian ministry involves leadership, it fundamentally relies on relationships. That means, developing authentic relationships must take priority over formal interactions. Trust is fostered through relationships that are true and heartfelt. Even Paul reminds us to regard each other with warmth and affection (Rom. 12:10). Effective ministers recognize this, and are careful to cultivate genuine relationships. They make time to understand individual stories, struggles, and aspirations. Such authentic relationships are the cornerstone of their pastoral care.

This advice has shaped my approach to ministry. It has taught me to embrace continuous learning, prioritize self-care, and cultivate genuine relationships. To the degree I have implemented these principles, I have found ministry to be rich and rewarding. So, let me encourage you to adopt these principles, and embark on your ministry journey in service to the Lord, your congregation, and your community.